Hey! I’m Rhoda, and my roommate Hannah and I are both juniors at Cedarville University.
We’ve been doing this whole shared space thing long enough to know what works and what doesn’t. I’m here to share some of our favorite unwritten roomie rules that make living together peaceful and fun!
Whether you’re currently living in a dorm, about to move in, or even looking at your first apartment, take notes! These rules might just save your friendships (and your sleep schedule)!
1. Ceiling Lights Stay Off
Nothing kills the dorm room vibe like the harsh overhead lights. Warm lamps only, please! Mood lighting in our room is a must.
2. Headphones = Do Not Disturb
If the headphones are on, don’t talk to me. I’m in the zone!
3. Refill the Water
Our Brita pitcher is a lifesaver after a gym visit or long walk across campus. If you use it, just remember to refill it for the next roomie!
4. You can eat my snacks … but don’t finish them!
Snacks are for sharing, but we all have our limits. That last chip is NOT up for grabs!
5. 2 a.m. Conversations >> Outside
Sometimes a late-night phone call just needs to happen, but do it in the hall. Just because you’re whispering doesn’t mean you can’t be heard!
6. Alarms on Vibrate Only
This might be controversial for the heavy sleepers out there, but we don’t ever use sound alarms. Let the roomie enjoy her last ten minutes of sleep!
7. What’s Shared in the Room Stays in the Room
This is our safe zone. Need to vent or talk about your day? All important conversations are strictly confidential!
8. Napping Is a Team Sport
If you nap, I’m gonna nap. No explanation needed.
9. No Morning Conversations
We can say “good morning,” but that’s it. We’re not morning people. Don’t talk to me.
10. If She Forgets the Trash, I Take Out the Trash
Teamwork makes the dream work! We’ve got each other’s backs.
Sharing a dorm room with a roommate in college can be so much fun. All you need is a little trust, cooperation, and respect! Our rules aren’t a contract — they’re just little methods we use to care for one another well. Send this post (or our super awesome video below) to your roomie and let us know what unwritten rules you’ve come up with!
Major: Computer Science
Year of Graduation: Class of 2026
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